Hebrews 12:8  If you are left without discipline, in which all have participated, then you are illegitimate children and not sons.

If you are God’s child, he WILL discipline you. It may not be what we want, but it’s important in order for us to grow. Rejoice when you receive discipline!!
(12:6) For the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives.