1 Peter 4:12-13 Dear friends, don’t be surprised at the fiery trials you are going through, as if something strange were happening to you.  Instead, be very glad—for these trials make you partners with Christ in his suffering, so that you will have the wonderful joy of seeing his glory when it is revealed to all the world.
Trials may be hard, but they occur for a good reason. Part of the problem with trials is that we try to fight it ourselves. When we our tested, the point is to let God handle it. Let Him do His job. He knows what’s going on.